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Before you send it.

An engagement party is often the first time both families and both friend groups meet. It can be anything from cocktails in a living room to dinner at a favorite restaurant, and the invitation should hint at which. A champagne-toast design says something different from a backyard barbecue.

Parents or close friends often host, though many couples host their own. Whoever sends it, keep the guest list in mind: by tradition, anyone invited to the engagement party is also invited to the wedding.

What to include

  • The couple’s names
  • Who is hosting
  • Date, time and venue
  • Dress code or vibe, like “cocktail attire” or “come as you are”
  • Whether gifts are expected (usually they aren’t)
  • An RSVP date

When to send it

Send engagement party invitations four to six weeks ahead. Most engagement parties happen within a few months of the proposal, while the news is still fresh.

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Wording ideas

Toast
She said yes! Join us for a toast to Hannah and Theo Friday, Feb 19 · 7 pm The Velvet Room
Hosted by parents
Maria and Luis Alvarez invite you to celebrate the engagement of their daughter Isabel to Jonah Reed Saturday, March 6 at six o’clock
Casual
We’re engaged! Let’s celebrate. Burgers, drinks and a backyard full of friends. Sunday, April 11 · 3 pm onward

Questions, answered.

Who hosts an engagement party?

Traditionally the bride’s parents, but anyone close to the couple can host, and many couples now host their own.

Should guests bring gifts to an engagement party?

Gifts aren’t expected. If the couple would rather have none, it’s fine to say so: “Your company is the only gift we need.”

Does everyone at the engagement party need a wedding invitation?

By tradition, yes. Keep the engagement party list to people you plan to invite to the wedding.

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